Machine Matchmaking: Love Before AI

Date 25 June 2025
Time 5:30 - 8:30pm
Location 309 Regent Street
Cost Free
Machine Matchmaking: Love Before AI, a lecture by the Centre for the Study of Democracy at the University of Westminster.

Among other things, technologies are stories about possibilities that we come to believe in, and attempt to, collectively realise. We live in a time when the adoption of AI technologies seems to have become fait accompli across a range of policy, governance, and affective landscapes; the algorithms will often determine the geographies of our knowledge about ourselves and the world, make sense of our experience as we interface with digital and real entities, decide what we can access, and curate what we can, and do, care for. But many innovative developments in the history of computing remain to be worked on from the age of early AI.

This lecture is based on Professor Kaul's Westminster-Smithsonian partnership project "Love in the time of early AI: Machines, Matchmaking, and Minorities".

The 1950s and 1960s were marked by a techno-futurist shaping of social subjectivities and consciousness, where identities became ever more intertwined with technological developments in all aspects of our lives. Specifically, computers began to be made available commercially, and their uses seemed endless. Popular culture was taken up by these machines. The data pattern matching by machines was seen as an exciting promise for machines to be matchmakers who could "do" love and marriage better than human beings. Enter the era of "Electronic Cupid" and "scientific matchmaking".

This illustrated presentation will provide an innovative account of that social, political, and epistemic history through a focus on technology and identities in the late 1950s and early 1960s United States of America.

The lecture will be followed by responses from students Abigail Larbi, Aishath Leesha, and Namgyel Wangchuk, who have co-curated the exhibition on the theme of "Love Before AI" that will be on display between 24 June – 2 July 2025 at the University of Westminster's Regent Street Campus.

Bio of the speakers

Agenda

Registration: 5.30pm–6pm

Welcome note and speaker introduction: 6pm–6.05pm

By the University of Westminster.

Talk by Prof Nitasha Kaul: 6.05pm–6.45pm

In this lecture, Professor Nitasha Kaul will provide an original account of how the ordering of relationality and romance were mediated by the emergence of new technologies in the mid-20th century onwards; she will trace an innovative history of machines, matchmaking, and minorities in late 1950s and early 1960s USA.

Responses: A Co-Creation Experience: 6.45pm–6.55pm

With Abigail Larbi, Aishath Leesha, and Namgyel Wangchuk, co-organisers of the talk and co-curators of the exhibition “Love Before AI”.

Q&A: 6.55pm–7.25pm

Reception: 7.25pm–8pm

Drinks and snacks.

Location

152-153 Cayley Room, 309 Regent Street, University of Westminster, London W1B 2HW